I should have prefaced this whole story by saying I've worked for Audi/Porsche, Honda, etc. so I know all about the bs rules of service depts...
Thanks for all the feedback, though some of you missed the points I was trying to make. I was trying to get across how BMW na needs to make it once a year so there is some wiggle room for instances such as this: spring purchase, fall storage w/oil change and prep, drive spring and summer and the. Oil change in fall...
I also was trying to point out that BMW is shooting itself in the foot by not letting me do the most for their vehicle... I'm also not convinced I won't buy the car out either, I love it, that's why I want to take care of it, plus I have a jeep for the winter.
Lastly, I wanted to note that a BMW service employee should never be advising customers not to care if it is a lease. That just creates problems in the long run for the dealer and customers
'12 335i Sport Apline White w/black... Totaled
'14 535i xdrive M-Sport Carbon Black w/Mocha Nappa