Thanks to everyone for the many responses. I wrote the post around the time I was making the decision and agreed to accept the car as is for some monetary compensation (which i'll use to offset my new sport line wheel purchase)!! The dealer offered to order another car for me but I really couldn't handle another 6 weeks of waiting.
After spending sometime with the car and digesting the situation a bit, I'm fine with the anthracite. I still like the burl but the anthracite has grown on me today.
The car is awesome. Sorry for the slow response but I just washed it and put on a few coats of Zaino tonight!
Anyone want to buy some luxury line wheels?