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Originally Posted by UncleWede
Don't even put me on some sort of pedestal. I'm married, but I ain't dead yet. I have impure thoughts about nearly every female that I walk by. It's the commitment to my vow that keeps me from taking any action. In my head, I already know at least one special position for each female I encounter on a regular basis.
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This is what I'm talking about. This is human nature. I'm very similar. What's the value in denying it? I've done open relationships and loved it until the emotional drama and neediness would set in with a woman. It was extremely satisfying at a deep level I never quite appreciated though. At some point I may suggest swinging to my girlfriend as I believe it's a way to scratch that itch without the emotional pitfalls (other couple is in the same situation, you're there to share the oxytocin with her, and it's balanced- nobody left out). Sounds like you...and probably many many others, would be happier with that sort of arrangement.