Wow, I am simply amazed that so many dealers are real jerks. Fortunately, I seem to have an enlightened one. With only about 500 miles on the car, my CA walked me back to the service department, introduced me to the manager, and arranged an appointment to have the ASS recoded. They also scheduled an f30 loaner.
When asked, my CA said about half of his customers have the ASS recoded, mostly all his older ones.
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