Ask a gynecologist anything

1MOREMOD · 08-12-2015, 09:36 PM

What girls can come before I do! Thanks doc. I thought that happened when I was out of the room.

DJKapeesh · 08-13-2015, 12:56 PM

How much do you make? Whats your SSN and bank account number? You said anything right?

NEFARIOUS · 08-13-2015, 01:40 PM

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Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

What girls can come before I do! Thanks doc. I thought that happened when I was out of the room.

I can introduce you to my ex, except she won't let you get yours when she gets hers

... Plus other reasons that made me leave her

(oh and to follow up with OP, that was one of the reasons I actually wanted some advice since I last too long.

MrPrena · 08-13-2015, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by NEFARIOUS

I can introduce you to my ex, except she won't let you get yours when she gets hers

... Plus other reasons that made me leave her

(oh and to follow up with OP, that was one of the reasons I actually wanted some advice since I last too long.

This is why foreplay is important. Usually female who want to skip the foreplay are ones who reaches destination faster.... much faster.

ideliver · 08-14-2015, 11:29 AM

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Originally Posted by NEFARIOUS

I can introduce you to my ex, except she won't let you get yours when she gets hers

... Plus other reasons that made me leave her

(oh and to follow up with OP, that was one of the reasons I actually wanted some advice since I last too long.

she might have been a good candidate for some "multiple" training...

ashtaron14 · 08-17-2015, 03:38 AM

I've been following this thread since it was bumped back from the dead and I've just got no questions because my wife has been is doing so well on her first pregnancy.

I'll be a father on or before September 3rd (Wife going to get C-sec that day, unless he decides to comes out before that).

Any advice for a soon to be father?

UncleWede · 08-17-2015, 11:07 AM

Sleep, NOW!

Sara · 08-17-2015, 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by ashtaron14

I've been following this thread since it was bumped back from the dead and I've just got no questions because my wife has been is doing so well on her first pregnancy.

I'll be a father on or before September 3rd (Wife going to get C-sec that day, unless he decides to comes out before that).

Any advice for a soon to be father?

Congrats!!

Take TONS of video and pictures right after he is born. Only thing I regret is only having two videos of her in the delivery room. I wish there would have been more filming.

ashtaron14 · 08-17-2015, 08:20 PM

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Originally Posted by UncleWede

Sleep, NOW!

Yeah I've been doing that a lot. My wife and I love sleep, and naps.

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Originally Posted by Sara504

Congrats!!

Take TONS of video and pictures right after he is born. Only thing I regret is only having two videos of her in the delivery room. I wish there would have been more filming.

Thanks and I will! But I'm not planning to post pics or videos of him freshly born. I think it's private and should stay private (I see them too often on FB).

I was reading this book - Conception, Pregnancy, & Birth by Miriam Stoppard. It says that the mother needs rest after C-Sec operation for the anesthetics to wear off, and she'll be tired. While she's resting the father can spend some time with the baby. It recommends taking your shirt off to cradle the baby to share warmth, let him smell you and hear your heartbeat. I kind of want to, but I'll be at a hospital

Xtabi · 08-17-2015, 11:13 PM

Do you live in Dublin?

Sara · 08-18-2015, 11:36 AM

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Originally Posted by ashtaron14

Yeah I've been doing that a lot. My wife and I love sleep, and naps.

Thanks and I will! But I'm not planning to post pics or videos of him freshly born. I think it's private and should stay private (I see them too often on FB).

I was reading this book - Conception, Pregnancy, & Birth by Miriam Stoppard. It says that the mother needs rest after C-Sec operation for the anesthetics to wear off, and she'll be tired. While she's resting the father can spend some time with the baby. It recommends taking your shirt off to cradle the baby to share warmth, let him smell you and hear your heartbeat. I kind of want to, but I'll be at a hospital

Most hospitals will tell you to do that. I did that. I'm surprised they did not already disclose designated hours for "cuddle time. Her first week I tried to let her sleep on me with no shirt on as much as possible.

UncleWede · 08-18-2015, 04:04 PM

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Originally Posted by ashtaron14

Yeah I've been doing that a lot. My wife and I love sleep, and naps.

Um, hate to be the one to break it to you but life, as you 2 have known it, is about to be over. . .

I hope sleep is more of a fun thing to do, rather than a necessity, because you won't for the next 2 years.

ideliver · 08-18-2015, 05:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Xtabi

Do you live in Dublin?

nope....what makes you think I'm Irish?

ideliver · 08-18-2015, 05:29 PM

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Originally Posted by ashtaron14

I've been following this thread since it was bumped back from the dead and I've just got no questions because my wife has been is doing so well on her first pregnancy.

I'll be a father on or before September 3rd (Wife going to get C-sec that day, unless he decides to comes out before that).

Any advice for a soon to be father?

The first year is hers...after that...you're up

ashtaron14 · 08-18-2015, 08:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

Most hospitals will tell you to do that. I did that. I'm surprised they did not already disclose designated hours for "cuddle time. Her first week I tried to let her sleep on me with no shirt on as much as possible.

Oh yes I can wear a button down shirt!!!

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Originally Posted by UncleWede

Um, hate to be the one to break it to you but life, as you 2 have known it, is about to be over. . .

I hope sleep is more of a fun thing to do, rather than a necessity, because you won't for the next 2 years.

Some babies sleep a lot, so my fingers are crossed

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Originally Posted by ideliver

The first year is hers...after that...you're up

For the first 2 months we have this Moonsitter, similar to a midwife. It's a trend in Hong Kong to have one. She manages the health of the mother post birth as well as the baby's health. She cooks (some traditional form of diet) and teaches you how to notice symptoms, clean, etc etc.

Sara · 08-19-2015, 01:31 AM

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Originally Posted by ashtaron14

Oh yes I can wear a button down shirt!!!

Some babies sleep a lot, so my fingers are crossed

For the first 2 months we have this Moonsitter, similar to a midwife. It's a trend in Hong Kong to have one. She manages the health of the mother post birth as well as the baby's health. She cooks (some traditional form of diet) and teaches you how to notice symptoms, clean, etc etc.

My baby is now 1 and its 130AM and I'm up giving her a bottle.

ashtaron14 · 08-19-2015, 02:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

My baby is now 1 and its 130AM and I'm up giving her a bottle.

I'm excited

DJKapeesh · 08-19-2015, 08:04 AM

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Originally Posted by ashtaron14

Yeah I've been doing that a lot. My wife and I love sleep, and naps.

Thanks and I will! But I'm not planning to post pics or videos of him freshly born. I think it's private and should stay private (I see them too often on FB).

I was reading this book - Conception, Pregnancy, & Birth by Miriam Stoppard. It says that the mother needs rest after C-Sec operation for the anesthetics to wear off, and she'll be tired. While she's resting the father can spend some time with the baby. It recommends taking your shirt off to cradle the baby to share warmth, let him smell you and hear your heartbeat. I kind of want to, but I'll be at a hospital

Time to start hitting the gym :P

ashtaron14 · 08-19-2015, 09:16 AM

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Originally Posted by DJKapeesh

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Originally Posted by ashtaron14

Yeah I've been doing that a lot. My wife and I love sleep, and naps.

Thanks and I will! But I'm not planning to post pics or videos of him freshly born. I think it's private and should stay private (I see them too often on FB).

I was reading this book - Conception, Pregnancy, & Birth by Miriam Stoppard. It says that the mother needs rest after C-Sec operation for the anesthetics to wear off, and she'll be tired. While she's resting the father can spend some time with the baby. It recommends taking your shirt off to cradle the baby to share warmth, let him smell you and hear your heartbeat. I kind of want to, but I'll be at a hospital

Time to start hitting the gym :P

I jog.

Sara · 08-19-2015, 10:16 AM

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Originally Posted by ashtaron14

I'm excited

I am quoting this for future reference.

PoorLurker · 08-19-2015, 12:14 PM

Do you suggest that new parents invest in the stem cell freezing route?

upstatedoc · 08-19-2015, 01:42 PM

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Do you suggest that new parents invest in the stem cell freezing route?

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