This is such an unfair comparison.. why would you compare a 328i with an Msport 435i?? The least you could have done was make it somewhat of a reasonable comparison by putting it next to a Msport 335i. Of course the 328i is going to look less aggressive!!
Why didn't you buy a 2011 335i Msport in the first place so that you could make a better comparison knowing that you would make a new purchase in a few yrs??
The only thing you could compare apples to apples here is the color and the fact that they have 2 doors.. big deal!!
/sarcasm
congrats!