I am ALSO going to recommend SONIC car wash in Bellerose. Thee facility has a flat belt the car rides, hence no damage to your wheels. You can also tell the ticket guy "No Brush" this way only the dudes inside wash will touch your car (hand was). Their cleaning/drying process is a lot better because they Do take their time. It's a tad bit expensive about ~25-35 dollars depending on the wash you get. It's totally worth the money, imo.
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