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I've started my retirement plan - going to suggest going to 4 days sometime in 2025 and 3 days 2 years after that... with complete finish in 2029... |
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01-04-2024, 05:17 AM | #69 |
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For those with relatives with dementia (or suspected), early intervention can be vital. It's been proven that treatment (drugs) as early as possible can noticeably slow the progression of the disease (if it's identified quickly enough). The trouble is that the early indications of dementia can be very subtle, and can develop slowly over many years.
My grandmother was diagnosed in the relatively early-onset stage and was immediately prescribed Aricept (donepezil). The cognitive ability tests showed that the drug was having a positive effect. She did eventually deteriorate rapidly, and spent range last couple of of years of her life in residential care, but the drug helped her to retain a longer period of independence. Luckily my mum was able to get full Local Authority funding. Despite my strong recommendations my father-in-law was not prescribed drugs at all when he was diagnosed a couple of years ago, and lost his mental reasoning very quickly. He is currently in respite care, and now requires full-time residential care. He has no idea who anyone is, except the occasional recognition of his wife, and although he can walk he is totally incapable of looking after himself in any way i.e. if food and cutlery are placed in front of him he doesn't know what to do. My MiL has to find (and prove that she has) the first two years care costs in cash, which is a very significant sum of money. After that it's a lottery in terms of Local Authority funding, because the criteria have changed significantly. If the person is still lucid enough to resist discussing the possibility of dementia with a GP, it's worth having a candid conversation with them about how things could progress, at what pace, and the consequences. To use a medical anology, who would prefer a diagnosis of advanced/terminal cancer rather than 'early stage' ?
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01-04-2024, 06:00 AM | #70 |
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Aricept is licensed for mild to moderate alzhiemers(along with galantamine and rivastigmine which are rarely used) and Memantine for moderate to advanced alzhiemers. These can improve function and can slow the decline.
There are different types of dementia and sadly if it's vascular dementia which is rather common second only to alzhiemers or any other type these cognitive enhancers aren't licensed. I look forward to these consultations as have done so on thousands of occasions. People who need help can be brought around with reassurance and genuine interest. Most GP's would love to help/make a difference in these scenarios. Social care is where there can be a problem especially on Scotland where funded places and anyone with savings don't go hand in hand and I've spent hours liaising with care services when families are stuck. Numerous old ladies in their tiny apartments worth 140k etc which they own. They detest the loss of independence and their life savings by having to move into an institution.Eventually the time comes when theyre an exceeding risk to self and I hate that part of my work. |
01-04-2024, 07:31 AM | #71 | |
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I don't think he would feel able to go against her wishes and somehow convince into going under the pretence of it being a general health check. My knee isn't bad now thanks - but I just haven't managed to get my general fitness levels to where they were a couple of years ago. |
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01-04-2024, 08:39 AM | #73 |
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There are a few angles to this 1. Not to sound patronising but people are allowed to decide(good and bad decisions) about their health interventions and mostly they have capacity to do so. 2. Sometimes what we offer as help can be seen as "pesky" by old folk. They fear loss of independence or admission that they've lost their marbles and who can blame them. 3. There is a case for chipping away. I often call /see them in the surgery offer blood tests and humour them with some cognitive questions and send them away with a planted seed. 4. Ultimately if they are in possession of facts or are in denial forcing them is not possible. 5. It's good if it's a GP who they've known and trust. They are more likely to accept suggestions from them 6. Could be best to talk to a senior GP in the practice explain your concerns. We have our ways of working things out. 7. Carer stress is a thing so look after yourselves and your family who care for your relative |
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01-04-2024, 09:13 AM | #74 |
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We're hoping to have a normal year for once as the last few have been pretty rotten.
The missus retired in 2022, we were full of hopes and dreams but her father almost immediately broke his hip, she ended up being a full time carer. Last Jan he was admitted to hospital for a simple infection, caught covid and died after about six weeks. I took on inheritance tax planning, probate, clearing, doing up and selling the property which although it kept me busy (also retired) severely tested my mettle but was concluded towards the end of the year. It felt like we lost 18 months. Notwithstanding the mother in law lives in an extention / annex she was also ill most of the year with shingles, my elderly mother 91 needs help most weeks so its like a retirement dream gone wrong. The rest of the family are quite happy to leave it to us as of course we're retired. My grown up daughters are both in high stress jobs and use us as soundboard, my lad is a doctor currently on strike. I want to move to the absolute middle of nowhere and escape it all, seriously but the missus won't leave the daughters !! So we're getting away starting in the next few weeks, I've booked a Caribbean cruise and it can't come quick enough. We're going to the Maldives in May for a few weeks which really is paradise, then its the Euros in June, TDF in July and back to the Caribbean in Sept with friends. In the middle of that I want to cycle to the South of France and back or Switzerland and back again. Oh yeah and play as much golf as I can. Health wise I need a spinal fusion (saw the surgeon yesterday) but want to put the damn thing off for as long as I can to get the above trips in. Cycling wise, I'm mainly Zwift now, weight 88kg, get down to 80kg(without cutting out beer want to clear 6000 miles this year and do the Alp in 60 mins (PB is 71). It's hammering outside now (this weather wtf is going on) so into the pain cave on the turbo for a few hours and listen to music. |
01-04-2024, 10:05 AM | #75 |
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My health goal for 2024 is to not drink.
After a stressful day at work I found myself reaching for a glass of wine. Sometimes when mrs was away working evenings and nights etc kids would say let's out shopping or let's go to the cinema and I'd have to make excuses as I couldn't drive.I didn't think it was fair on them as it was selfish of me. Dry since30th Dec and I feel better for it. |
01-04-2024, 12:14 PM | #76 | |
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Instead of completely cutting it out, over the last few years I've cut down on the alcohol content of what I'm drinking. So instead of a 5% beer, it's 4% or under, instead of a 13.5% claret it's 11 or 12%. I can't remember the last time I had a proper old school hangover, oh and I take water with it now, always have a glass of water on the go. I've never been into spirits really so that was never an issue due to a bad experience as a teenager. I have some hard drinking relatives and friends, most late 50's / early 60's and some of them are cutting back big time, turning to alcohol free beer, not touching anything during the week at all. Not so the women I'm finding but that could just be my family. |
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02-11-2024, 05:47 AM | #78 | |
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I weighed in at 99.7kg on January 28th. I then went on Holiday to Dubai on the 29th and returned yesterday. Not been brave enough to step on the scales yet but how bad can the damage be in just two weeks?! |
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02-11-2024, 05:57 PM | #79 | |
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I’ve hovered around 103kg since about Xmas. I had a holiday, Xmas, new years, a birthday weekend away and a few nights away with work recently which have really hindered further progress as I’ve had less control over my intake with having to eat out plenty. Holiday again this week and as long as I don’t put weight on, I’ll take the win and go again to get to my ideal 85 kg. |
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